Thursday, February 25, 2010

About me

Hi to everyone out there that may read this. My name is Brittney and I am a 24 year old stay at home mother. Why do I stay at home you may ask? Well I don't just have one 1 year old I have two! Thats right, twins. My beautiful little girls were born in December of 2008 and are now 14 months old. I am also a wife to an amazing although sometimes very frusterating man. My husband is however very supportive and treats me wonderful. In addition to mom, cook, housekeeper, and wife, I am also a fulltime student. I attend all of my classes online as I don't ever have a babysitter!
So why am I blogging? Well it seems that I can't get my mind to shut down and due to circumstances in my life I just don't have a lot of close friends at the moment. So I need somewhere to vent.
I should probably be in bed right now as the kids will be up in 8 short hours but I feel like I am drowning at the moment. I said I don't have a lot of close friends and here is why. I am originally from a different state then where I am currently leaving and all of my family lives there. However, when I got married we choose to live close to my husbands's family. This was probably a huge mistake but one that we are now stuck with for at least 29 more years or until I win the lottery! Since I am new to this state and don't have any help with my children it makes it hard to find friends and people to talk with. I do attend church and while I love it I sometimes feel that at the one place I shouldn't be judged, I am still getting judged. I can't stand feeling like people are being fake to me and that is often how at feel as people glide by with there hellos and how are yous. My husbands family does live around us but that is often more drama than it is worth. Another reason living here was such a mistake on our part.
Intro to the family!
The father in law- more commonly know as the grump! No, I am not the only one who refers to him this way, even his own kids call him this. It doesn't matter what is going on, he is always in a bad mood and for the most part doesn't like women because we all screw over men according to him. Can't blame him for thinking this way as you will see why when I explain his ex-wife.
The brother in law- 14 year old, ok well actually age yes 14, mentally however I am gonna have to gowith about 7. I remember 14 year old boys and I have to say he is really more classified as the 7 year old. He is very immature and lazy. This seems to be common in today's society.
The sister in law - how to describe her? A piece of work? Her husband works long hours while she sits at home watching tv. She does little house work without her husbands help, has no children, does not attend school, and does not work. Oh yay I know the word LAZY! I love her but I just can't relate to her. We use to be best friends but after she divorced her first husband she changed so much and now acts spoiled. She seems to think that life should just be handed to a person.
The mother in law- Last but certainly not least! Well she is the least favorite in my book though! This woman is the epitomy of selfishness. I think her picture should be in the dictionary. She is 44 years old and thinks the world should revolve around her. She has money issues which of course is everyone's fault but her own! Kind of funny since she has no bills but yet has no money to pay child support? How does that work? She also still wants to be number one to my husband, mind you he has two kids and wife! She can't stand us for that reason. Brian chooses us over her so she likes to stir up drama all the time.
Anyways you will learn more as the weeks go on but I just wanted you to get a quick glimpse at this interesting characters. Tune in soon for more.